Holy @#^#&! Am I really going to do this?
It is official. Lisa and I have booked rooms in Nashville, TN for the Biggest Loser 10 casting call. We are driving 7 hours so I can try and dazzle someone in about 2 minutes and I am freaking terrified… I know we shouldn’t put a lot of stock in what most people think, but these are gatekeepers to the show and my goal in the next week and a half is to decide how to show them who I am in 2 minutes or less.
The big thing is that I know… I TRULY know deep down in my heart this is where I need to be. Every year, I feel a tug on my heart to go to a casting call, but I dismiss it due to fear of failure. I dismiss it because I didn’t want another person to not choose me, pick me, or tell me I am not good enough. I know how many people audition and only a handful get the opportunity to actually participate in the show. This year I am saying $%&^ YOU to failure. I don’t care if they throw me out of the room because they are bored with me. I am going not only to try and get on the show, I am going to prove to myself I am rightly on the journey to overcome the notion that I am dominated by such things.
I have spent my entire life… my ENTIRE life dominated by fears and repercussions of not being liked, loved, accepted, chosen, etc. That is one of the reasons I gave up music, conducting, and performing. I couldn’t handle the fact that others were better and some may not prefer me. I have always lay blame to an old professor of mine (who still said I was too fat to conduct), but I have to place blame upon myself as well. I allowed others to push me to this point. And I gave them permission to “make” me feel instead of me choosing how to feel about something. I don’t know what the outcome may be next week. Hell, there may be soo many people that I don’t even get a chance to see anyone, but the trip will hopefully be another step for me in conquering my biggest opponent, which ironically is not my weight, but actually myself.
So, now I need your help. If you were given two minutes to explain to someone why to give you an opportunity to change your life, what would you do… or even better, tell me what to say… yeah.. help me

    
    
    

March 4th, 2010 at 11:37 am
Look, it’s simple: the odds are dramatically against you being chosen. It’s simply a numbers thing, Sam. Realize that this is a free roll… you simply don’t have anything to lose in this situation, and everything to gain.
Be yourself… and let the chips fall where they may.
And feel free to drop my name if you think it’ll help.
March 4th, 2010 at 11:38 am
Hey man. I think you just said it. Tell them what you just told us all. Dude you can do this! You will have a lot of support I know it, I know you’ll have mine. Good luck my friend!
March 4th, 2010 at 11:47 am
Jack!!! You have done it… I will simply say, if you don’t choose me you don’t know Jack SH*T. That drops your name, and gets me on the show. Well done my friend, you truly rock!
March 4th, 2010 at 11:48 am
Congrats to you on facing your demons! I will send lots of prayers and good thoughts your way. Like Jack said, the odds are stacked against you only because of the numbers. Treat it as a mini-vacation and enjoy the experience. I would be true to yourself and them. Honesty and showing/expressing your fears will only help you in the long run (if not get you on the show!). I would tell them many of the things you express right here with us!
Good luck and safe travels to you!
March 4th, 2010 at 1:09 pm
Just speak from the heart. I’ll be hoping you get on the show and will even start watching it again if you do!
March 5th, 2010 at 7:18 am
Sam! When I saw your update on my blogroll my heart about lifted out of my chest. SO glad to hear what you’re up to, and you’ve got all of my support in this. I loved the post and am inspired by your determination. HAVE FUN. Can’t wait to hear more . . .
March 5th, 2010 at 10:48 am
My suggestion of what to say would be some time to explain
1. the health fears
2. the negative impact you’ve felt weight has had on life (One example I’ve heard you say before was getting tired when playing with Lucas, doubts about conducting)
3. and your motivations for weight loss.
I would then suggest after that that you tell them
1. what you’ve been trying before, what you’ve tried in the past,
2. reluctance to just do the gastro bypass
3. that you’ve been motivated to lose weight on your own but at times have had setbacks.
Lastly
1. Why the show would help (support of others, less distractions, motivating factors)
2. Desire to be supportive of the other persons on the show and help them as well